Anxious, Broke, and Loving It

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After an unexpected (and much longer than planned) break, Anxious, Broke & Loving It is finally back! 

So… where the hell have I been? 

In this comeback episode, I’m catching you up on everything that happened while I was away—including conventions, adventures, chaos, unexpected twists, and all the things I’ve missed talking about with you.

We’re talking about the conventions I’ve been to, the ones coming up, some of the people and moments that have made this fandom journey so special, and what I’ve learned during my time away.

And because apparently I can’t just come back quietly… there’s also a little honesty, a few tangents, probably some oversharing, and plenty of the usual Anxious, Broke & Loving It chaos. 

Is this episode perfectly polished? Probably not.

Do I know exactly what I’m doing? Absolutely not. 

But you know what?

I missed this.

I missed talking about conventions. I missed sharing the adventures. And honestly, I missed talking to you.

So grab your lanyard, settle in, and come hang out with me again.

Anxious, Broke & Loving It is officially BACK. 

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In this episode, we're taking about parasocial relationships- those connections we form with characters, actors, creators, and fandom spaces that feel like home. We'll explore why they matter, how they help us survive hard seasons, and how to keep them supportive instead of draining. Because loving fandom deeply doesn't mean losing yourself in it- it means learning how to let it lift you without carrying the whole weight of your heart. This is about connection, not consumption. Healing, not guilt. 

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When all the spoons are gone, when the tired never seems to go away, when you're just so tried of "faking it till you make it", when your bones are tired, and absolutely everything and nothing all at the same time makes you cry- Well, then you're finding yourself where I am right now. At the end of the rope, but still hanging on kitten. If you're listening to this and you're worn out too, hang in there kitten. You're not weak you're tired, there's a difference. Shout out to all the lovelies I blanked on when recording, including Wayward MARKET- why did I try and make it so hard??? In this podcast we talk about giving more than you take, new con season, Las Vegas guests, giving Jensen Ackles the Countdown scrapbook in Nashville, losing friends but holding tight to others, and just trying to make it through. I see you guys. No fancy edits or music on this one, and you'll even get to hear PJ make her first appearance (sorry if you hear her snoring). We're still here, and that's enough for now....

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What happens when you don't follow all the tips and tricks and rules? Guess what- con is still amazing!! Check out this week as we head to NashCon with a 2 week planning period!!!

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Fandom isn’t just about panels and photo ops—it’s about the people you meet along the way. In this episode, we explore the friendships that become your chosen family, the bonds that lift you up, and the heartbreaks when relationships crumble. We’ll share tips on finding your community, maintaining healthy connections, and bouncing back after fandom fallouts. Whether you’re navigating a new friendship or mourning a lost one, this episode is a celebration of the people who make fandom feel like home.

Who’s your chosen con family? Share your stories, shout out your besties, and let’s celebrate the people who make fandom feel like home.

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A convention isn’t just a weekend—it’s a runway, a reunion, and sometimes a battlefield of badge bling. In this episode, we break down the unspoken language of the con fit—from the shoes that will save your life in line, to the jacket that makes you feel like the main character, to the lanyard that quietly says, “I belong here.”

We’ll talk comfy vs. cosplay, tips for packing light but stylish, how to balance self-expression with practicality, and why sometimes a simple bracelet or button can become your whole personality for the weekend. Whether you’re rocking jeans and fandom tees or going full glam, the art of the con fit is about more than clothes—it’s about claiming your place in the community.

What’s your ultimate con fit? Do you have a signature tee, a pair of sneakers that never fail, or maybe a piece of con jewelry with a story? Share your photos and stories with us—we want to see how you rock your badge and your fit!

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The tears, the meltdowns, and the moments that make you feel like a con is both heaven and maybe even a little bit of hell...Let's talk about it. From being overwhelmed at registration to going through your pics after the convention, what's the best way to deal with it all, and how can you help yourself? 

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In this episode of ‘Anxious, Broke & Loving It,’ I’m all over the place diving into the wild world of special events at cons—panels, workshops, unforgettable moments with Jason Manns and Billy Moran, and yes… even some totally chaotic karaoke. Tips, stories, laughs, and a little mayhem included—hold on tight!

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‘I Took a Photo with My Fave and Now It’s My Entire Personality’—in this episode of ‘Anxious, Broke & Loving It,’ I dive headfirst into the chaotic, hilarious, and totally magical world of convention photo ops! I spill all the secrets for snagging that perfect shot, including a special story about meeting Jared Padalecki at Dragon Con, and give a shout-out to photographer Chris Schmelke and handler Shelley for capturing those unforgettable moments. Expect laughs, tips, and a little messy chaos—because, honestly, that’s how we roll.”

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The emotional chaos of panels, photo ops, and meet & greets — we’ve all been there.

In this episode, we dive into:

•How to stay grounded when you’re just feet away from your favorite stars like Jensen or Jared

•What to say (and what to definitely not say) when your brain’s on overload

•How to forgive yourself for crying, stammering, or going totally blank — because hey, it happens to all of us

Whether you’re a first-timer or a seasoned con pro, this episode is your go-to guide for surviving fandom moments with grace—and maybe a little giggle or two.

Remember: You’re doing better than you think, and it’s more than okay to feel all the feelings. You’ve got a cheerleader right here, and you’ve absolutely got this.

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