Let’s talk about the shift. The one where you stop chasing, stop spiraling, and stop confusing intensity for intimacy—and instead, begin to embody the secure, grounded version of yourself who knows how to receive love without fear.

In this episode of Elaborations with SchellingtonGrin, we’re diving deep into what it really means to move from anxious attachment to secure connection—not through perfection, but through practice.

We explore what secure love actually looks like, how to self-regulate through triggers, and why your capacity to hold yourself is the key to magnetizing relationships that feel safe, sacred, and aligned. This isn’t about fixing yourself—it’s about remembering who you are when you stop abandoning yourself for connection.

Whether you’re healing from past heartbreak, navigating a current relationship, or calling in your forever person, this episode is your reminder that secure love begins within you.

Your emotions are not too much. Your needs are not a burden. And the version of you who moves from security? She's already here—you’re just learning how to trust her voice again.

Connect with me on Instagram @schellingtongrin112 for more insights, support, discussions, and one-on-one coaching. Let’s expand together.