Have you ever apologized just for being you?

In neurodiverse relationships, shutdowns and self-blame can quietly erode emotional safety, but they often come from deeper survival strategies.

In this episode of Love on the Autism Spectrum, Blaze explores what’s really happening when one or both partners begin to apologize for existing, whether through words, silence, or emotional withdrawal. You’ll hear the story of a couple navigating this dynamic and how they learned to slow down, name their patterns, and reconnect without shame. This is Part 1 of a 3-part series on healing in relationships

This episode is for both of you—the partner who shuts down and the partner who feels abandoned. You’ll learn how trauma, masking, and emotional overwhelm contribute to this pattern, and how to begin healing it through small, honest shifts in communication and pacing.

✨ Includes a reflective Home Play exercise to help both partners recognize when the urge to apologize is a signal for support.

🎧 Listen now to understand how to stop apologizing for who you are and start building a relationship that allows you to express your full humanity.

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✨ Come for the real talk. Stay for the support. You’re not alone here.

**This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for mental health care. Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, LMFT, is a licensed therapist in California, but this content does not constitute a therapeutic relationship. For personalized support, consult a qualified professional. If you're in crisis, call 988 or seek local emergency services.**