The Sales Stoic

April 17th - Don’t take setbacks personally


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Actionable tips:

  • When a deal goes south or you face criticism, take a deep breath and remind yourself that this isn’t personal. Challenge yourself to find the lesson in it instead.
  • Make it a habit to mentally “file away” any setbacks at the end of the day. Keep a daily journal or a quick checklist to mark what you’ve learned and then let it go and move on.
  • When facing one of these situations, take a moment to reframe it and ask yourself: "What can I control here, and how can I use this moment to grow?" By shifting your focus from what went wrong to what you can control in the future, you transform the setback into a stepping stone, making you more agile and prepared for the next challenge.

“Let go of the belief that you’ve been hurt, and the hurt fades away. Let go of feeling hurt, and the pain disappears.” - Marcus Aurelius


In our careers, setbacks like unresponsive prospects or critical feedback can feel personal, but choosing to see these situations neutrally helps us maintain energy and focus.

Feeling harmed often stems from our own perception. When we let go of the belief that we’ve been hurt, the pain fades away.

Think of it like carrying a brick in your pocket all day. Once you let go of the belief you’ve been wronged, you’re lighter and faster, ready to move forward.

Shake off negativity and bounce back quickly, focusing on new opportunities instead of past losses.

Remember you will die.

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