Apta Sophia Podcast

On this episode we are joined by Tonya Haskin, wife to Roger, mother to three grown children, and grandmother to many! Tonya has served in ministry with Family Life for decades, counseling many couples alongside her husband. On this episode we discuss how best to love and witness to our LGBTQ+ family members. Listen and be encouraged!

On this episode we are joined by Tonya Haskin, devoted wife and mother to three grown children, who has spent decades in ministry through Family Life counseling married couples alongside her husband. We discuss the importance of guarding your marriage from influences, ideas, and pet sins that can cause tremendous harm in your relationship with your spouse. Listen and be encouraged!

What happens when marriage becomes a constant tally of who did what, who does more, and whose work matters most? In this episode, we talk about the dangers of a transactional marriage, how scorekeeping breeds resentment, and how to replace it with gratitude, generosity, and teamwork. We’ll discuss recognizing the value of your spouse’s contributions and approaching the work of marriage, home, and family as a team—not competitors keeping score.

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On this episode we discuss the importance of doing all things in love as you manage your various duties and responsibilities as a woman, as a wife, and as a mother. We also examine what this looks like practically, and how to course correct when you find yourself succumbing to bitterness, frustration, and overwhelm. Listen and be encouraged!

On this episode we discuss the biblical command to set the Lord's Day aside as a day of worship and rest, and what that should look like practically. Listen and be encouraged!

The "do less" movement promises peace and freedom from overwhelm, but is shrinking our responsibilities really the biblical answer? In this episode, we make the case that God often grows us not by removing challenges, but by increasing our capacity to faithfully bear them. We'll explore why comfort isn't the highest Christian virtue and how pressing into responsibility with wisdom, diligence, and perseverance is one of God's primary means of sanctifying us and equipping us to bear more fruit for His kingdom.

On this episode we discuss ways that we can come alongside our husbands in the midst of disagreement to offer support and encouragement so that he can lead the family confidently and have a soft place to land if his plans should happen to fail. We also touch on the pitfalls of digging your heels in and allowing resentment to fester. Listen and be encouraged!

On this episode we discuss the concept of "mental load" in a woman's work and how we can avoid bitterness over what may *seem* to be an unequal mental burden in marriage. Listen and be blessed!