We explore why so-called selfish behavior in kids is usually development and how empathy-first coaching builds gratitude, compassion, and better choices. We share exact scripts for meltdowns, toy sharing, and “nothing to wear” drama, plus a simple weekly action step.

• reframing “selfish” as normal child development
• why egocentrism is a stage, not a flaw
• empathy-first, guidance-second communication
• scripts for missed-trip tantrums
• scripts for sharing toys with friends
• scripts for wardrobe complaints and gratitude
• modeling compassion and keeping boundaries
• one practical action step to practice this week

Okay, here's your action step for this week: When your child does something that seems selfish, pause before reacting. Take a breath, ask yourself what feeling might be behind this behavior. Then respond with empathy first and then guidance second.