Most evangelicals agree that same-sex behavior is sinful. But what about unchosen same-sex desires? If they are sinful, does that mean same-sex attracted people are sentenced to a life of misery and self-hatred?

Passages referenced in last half of the episode: 

Romans 7:24, Hebrews 12:14, Philippians 2:12-13, Colossians 2:12-14, Romans 8:12, Jude 24, John 17:3