How to Glow: The Jewish Woman's Marriage Boost

Ep. 148 - Are We Responsible for Each Other's Feelings?

04.26.2022 - By Kayla LevinPlay

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Today I want to talk to you about the idea of how we relate to one another's feelings and how that relates to the idea that our own thoughts create our feelings.

Specifically, we're going to take this into our marriages:

"I want to be happy" turns into "I need my husband to do xyz so I will be happy"

"I want my husband to be happy" becomes "I'm responsible to do everything he says will make him happy"

On the other end of the spectrum, we could go too far-- taking NO responsibility for our behavior, having no sensitivity to what the other person wants or cares about, and washing our hands of it by saying, "well, it's HIS thoughts that made him upset, not me."

Want to dive deeper into this work? Doors open soon for How to Glow and I'd love to have you join us! Just head over to kaylalevin.com/coaching to find out more.

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