Standards in dating are meant to protect values and long-term happiness, but in today’s dating culture, many people are questioning whether expectations still match reality. Social media, dating apps, and constant comparison have reshaped what seems normal, possible, or “deserved” in relationships.This discussion explores how women’s standards are formed, where they come from, and how outside influences can quietly raise expectations without considering compatibility, effort, or real world dynamics. It also looks at how men interpret these standards and how mismatched expectations can create frustration on both sides.Rather than blaming or shaming, this video focuses on balance. Healthy standards should filter wisely, not isolate. When expectations align with values, communication, and mutual effort, dating becomes less confusing and more intentional.