Compare the proof of love you have for anything in this world (children, spouse, family, etc.) against the love you have for God. Is it stronger and more prevalent in your life, and does it show in your heart, your mind, and your soul, day in and day out? Or, is it in your mind only?

When you compare what you expect from someone that loves you unconditionally, every day, in action - not talk; is that the love that you yourself are giving to God first and then everyone around you? If you struggle to have a deep relationship with the Lord and have a heart that has nothing but pure and true love for Him and for those all around you, even before yourself, the only one that can change your heart is the One who created it.