Brian's 3rd and final pillar, being Reality Grounded.

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Are you reality grounded?

I'm Brian Pombo, welcome back to Brian J. Pombo Live. Reality's a funny thing, if you don't pay attention to it, it'll come up and bite you eventually. One way or the other, there does seem to be a reality, there does seem to be things, a system of laws or what have you.

There's a nature that exists beyond us, and beyond what's going up in our heads, you know, going on in our minds and our imagination. And that's reality.

Reality is what it is, it's a mathematical thing. It's beyond human mathematics but mathematics and more mathematical science, directly relates to it.

It's meant to try to explain to us the depth that the depotness?…I can't think of the word, but to talk about how specific reality really is.

That's math and science, get us closer to understanding that. But reality is something that it's undeniable.

If you work enough in business, you realize that it's not about you. And it's not about really what you want in the long run, what really matters, in the long run is what is going on.

Then the way you'd like to have it and seeing what you could do to take it from where it is, to where you want it to be.

Where you want it to be, isn't reality where you want it to be, as is where you think it should and will go. There's an expectation factor in there but you have to know where you're at first, you have to be honest about reality, what is happening in the now not what happened forever, up until now, not even the immediate past.

But what is happening right now?

There's one major thing you got to watch on this and that's not being emotional, not being caught up in your emotions.

Now we're all emotional to some extent, we've got emotions, but being separate enough from your emotions to be able to see as close as possible, the black and white now changes everything.

That allows you to see where you can go next.

If you can't be honest, if you can't see clearly what is happening right now, what your circumstances truly are, you won't be able to go forward because there's a there's a recording playing of the past and your mind.

I'll give you a great example. I was having a conversation with my friend, and he knows who he is. He's actually he's living on the other side of the world. And we had a we had a really good conversation today.

We've been talking for a few weeks now and we had a really good conversation about where he's at and was very clear that he was stuck. And that solutions were completely beyond him.

It's because he was not in reality. He was in this alternate reality that we've all been in.

At some point, you may be in it right now, in this alternate reality in your mind that says, it's not going to work.

Nothing can happen, right?

I'm being punished, I'm this the all these, this garbage is not the words even it's the feeling that comes behind it. And we get stuck in this realm of nonsense. And it is nonsense. It's not reality.

But to be able to sit back and be able to watch that see that is not reality. See that the emotions that fuel it are not reality. If you as you can do that. You slowly start to get a feel for what reality is you slowly start to get a feel for what may be possible.

Even ihave a lofty goal,