Are you standing in your own way, feeling the pressure to completely "reinvent" yourself for your next chapter?

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In this episode of The Story I’m Telling Myself, host Rita Ernst sits down with communications expert Donna Cravotta to challenge the narrative that career transitions require starting from scratch. Donna shares her powerful journey of moving from a high-stress, "golden handcuff" law firm career and a burnout-inducing agency to a life of intentional visibility and sustainable business.

The Core Conflict: Reinvention vs. Remembering

In this episode, Donna argues that many women over 50 face a form of systemic imposter syndrome, in which society pressures them to "sit down" or to feel invisible. Instead of discarding 40 years of wisdom, Donna teaches how to reclaim and upcycle existing experiences into a "third act" that feels both realistic and authentic.

In this episode, you'll discover

• The "Try to New" Framework: Donna details her transition from a standard "content audit" to a process she calls "Tried to New"—a combination of honoring what works from the past while strategically integrating new tools.
• The Business "Swedish Death Cleanse": Inspired by the Swedish practice of organizing one's belongings, Donna explains how she applied this to her business to decide what stays, what goes, and what gets recycled.
• The Dressing Room Metaphor: A standout moment in the episode where Donna describes the transition period as a "dressing room," where you can try on different versions of your professional self without the fear of being "insufficient" if they don't fit.
• AI as a Thought Partner: Discover how Donna uses Google NotebookLM and other AI tools not for "velocity," but as a mirror to help identify patterns and wisdom she had previously overlooked.
• The Power of Self-Trust: Donna shares her "Colander/Spaghetti Strainer" method for filtering external advice, reminding listeners that ultimately, you are the one with your own answers.

Why You Should Listen Now

Whether you are navigating an "empty nest," healing from a health issue, or facing a professional crossroads, this episode provides a roadmap for overcoming the inner critic and the "unreliable narrator" in your head. Donna’s story of walking away from a half-million-dollar contract to honor her own happiness is a testament to the power of permitting yourself to change.

Stop trying to kill your past to build your future. Listen to this episode to learn how to "call in your fleet" and show up 100% as yourself.

Connect with the Guest: Find Donna Cravotta at cravottamediagroup.com

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Follow her Intentional Visibility Project on Substack.

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