"Am I challenging myself or am I torturing myself? Am I trying to be something I'm not, and that's why it's so hard? Should I be leaning into what already works?"

You know that feeling when you finish a tattoo and you're completely drained—not just physically, but emotionally and mentally too? I had this eye-opening conversation with my friend Milo after she guest spotted at Bluebird Tattoo Studio, and it completely shifted how I think about artistic growth. We dove deep into why we feel guilty for creating art that comes naturally to us, and why we think we need to torture ourselves to be "real" artists. Here's the thing: there's a huge difference between challenging yourself and burning yourself out. Sometimes the most radical thing you can do is lean into what already works for you and refine it instead of constantly trying to reinvent the wheel. This episode is for every artist who's ever felt like they're not doing enough, even when they're creating beautiful work.

Here's what I need you to understand: growth doesn't always have to hurt. Sometimes the biggest breakthroughs happen when you stop fighting against your natural artistic instincts and start working with them. Your art is an extension of your soul—treat it (and yourself) with the respect you deserve. Take what resonates, leave what doesn't, and remember that you get to make the rules for your own artistic journey.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

• Why doing smaller, simpler tattoos doesn't make you less of an artist

• How to identify the difference between healthy artistic challenge and self-torture

• The mental and physical toll of constantly pushing beyond your natural flow

• Why embracing what comes naturally can actually accelerate your growth

• How repetition and small refinements lead to mastery faster than constant reinvention

• Why comparing your artistic journey to other artists is sabotaging your success

• Practical strategies for finding the right balance between growth and sustainability

• How to reframe "easy" work as smart business and self-care

 

Links:

boundbyart.com

bluebirdtattoos.com

instagram.com/tattoosbymissiblue

instagram.com/boundbyartproject

instagram.com/bluebirdtattoostudio

 

Music: Unknown Road - The Harp Project