I know that at our church and a lot of other churches women aren't allowed to be pastors or elders because that's what the Bible says. Is the Bible and God sexist? Why should I be OK with this?

I've noticed a bit of a stigma around women's ministry in the church. How can church culture be shaped so that women don't feel oppressed but feel valued and important?

What are good, practical ways to be a leader in your spheres of influence?