Join us as we speak with Shawn, a young woman who is new to the BDSM community and navigating meeting new people.  We discuss many topics such as, meeting people on fetlife, red flags, taking a break from finding a partner, finding community, the risk of connecting with a mentor with ulterior motives, taking classes, dominating without consent, setting boundaries but not holding them, how the community handles bad actors, BATNA, bringing a friend on a date and more.