Join me as we talk with David.  We had been coaching for almost a year together when this podcast was recorded.  We discuss such topics as, why did he pick me, wanting to avoid traumatizing people, practicing vulnerability, mentorship in the leather community, sex coaching is a limiting term, roleplay, conditional ask with explanation, Blade Runner question, seeing his own behavior, how do you feel about sex in general, the dance of assumptions, emphasis on consent, turnabout is not fair play, toxic independence, red flags are subjective