SIP with Summers

Ask the Sexologist: Libido, Menopause, Orgasms, and Real Talk


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Low libido. Stress. Menopause questions. Orgasms that feel impossible. If any of that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.


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In this solo Q&A episode of SIP With Summers, board-certified sexologist and menopause coach Jennifer Marie Summers answers your anonymous questions about desire, stress, orgasms, menopause, vaginal dryness, pain during sex, sleep issues, body hair, herpes disclosure, and so much more.

We talk about why anxiety kills desire, why foreplay matters more than you were ever taught, what’s actually happening in your body during perimenopause, and why not orgasming from penetration is completely normal.


You’ll learn:
• How to get in the mood without pills or supplements
• Why stress directly affects libido and arousal
• What helps with vaginal dryness and painful sex during menopause
• When fertility actually ends and what perimenopause really looks like
• Why so many women struggle to orgasm and what actually helps
• How to talk to partners about pleasure, STIs, and shame-free sex


This is sex education without judgment, medical shame, or whispering. You’re not broken. You might just need better information and support.

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SIP with SummersBy Jennifer Marie Summers