When was the last time you humbled yourself, and spoke those two giant words, I’m sorry?

I once witnessed an entire family break down and sob when the father asked each member to forgive him for the way he’d handled himself in their relationship. He extended the olive branch with intensity and emotion.

It was a humble, sincere apology, and a good step toward restoring his position with his children. Every heart in the room melted, and anger and resentment began to lift.

I challenge you to take the dad’s example. Do you need to admit responsibility for building walls in your family? For contributing to miscommunication? It’s time to start steering your home in the right direction, and fostering respect in those you love.

Your teen may seem like a fortress with high walls and a locked gate. Impenetrable. But seeking forgiveness may unlock the door to his or her heart. Just say those two powerful words… I’m sorry.

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