Oooooh yes I am so here for more of this juciness. The secret sauce of a good ask.

The seduction behind knowing what it is you want and how to recruit people to help you achieve it.

Behind every complaint is a desire. A need. An unfulfilled longing. I find it far more helpful to locate the desire behind it and then come up with an ask, than to be sitting around complaining about it.

Being specific and congruent with your ask

Incongruence or hesitance in the ask is not claiming fully what you are asking and desiring

Its giving it away power

It's Shaky. wavering

Stop saying sorry, it’s okay for you to take up space in this world 

It’s okay for you to be HUNGRY with wanting. full of desires / why women think it’s not okay and the conditioning behind it