Are your teens in the “attack mode”? Do they come at you with guns blazing, ready for a fight?

Teens often sport an aggressive “I’m-here-to-win-the-battle” attitude. They’re willing to sacrifice people and relationships to come out on top. Sound familiar?

Well, if your child is attacking you physically, don’t hesitate to call the police!

But if he’s attacking you verbally, take time to look behind the words, and find out what’s motivating him to respond with such ugliness and rage. Once you understand what’s behind the attack, you’ll be responding from a place of grace and love, instead of reaction and defensiveness.

Don’t let a teen’s ugly attack hijack your family! Meet his anger with peace and grace. It won’t be long before he thanks you.

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