Becoming with the Johnsons

Attack the Problem, Not Your Spouse


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In this honest and hilarious episode, Slater and Shaunica get real about one of the biggest struggles in marriage: conflict. When the tension rises, are you attacking the problem... or attacking each other?

From surprise cat rescues to deep spiritual reflection, they open up about learning how to fight fair, communicate with love, and let go of the need to be right. You’ll hear:
 ✅ How to shift from blame to self-reflection
 ✅ Why prayer changes your perspective mid-conflict
 ✅ The difference between leading vs. dominating
 ✅ Why your tone matters—even when your voice is calm
 ✅ How to grow through change (yes, even physical ones 😅)
 ✅ And the secret sauce: fun, grace, and humility

Whether you’re dating, newly married, or 20 years in, this episode delivers faith-based marriage insight with plenty of laughter and “been there” moments.

📌 Listen, share, and subscribe for more transparent, Spirit-led convos that help you grow—not just together, but closer to God.

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Becoming with the JohnsonsBy Slater & Shaunica Johnson