On this episode, I talk with Shan Boodram about all things dating and relationships, from attraction and accepting your desires, to attachment styles, to dating mistakes.

 

We talk about:

• Shan’s new book “The Game of Desire”
• How what you wear can affect yourself and others
• Making sex education more accessible
• Accepting your desires without shame
• Things are not good or bad - it’s how you interact with them in your life
• What attraction is - not just physical, it’s the power to draw people in
• Why getting to know yourself is so important
• Keeping up the attraction in long term relationships
• Turn-on triggers
• Apology languages
• Attachment styles - anxious, secure, avoidant, fearful avoidant
• Why it’s great news to realize you’re the problem
• 1 + 1 = 3 in a relationship (each person’s relationship with his/herself and the relationship they have together)
• Biggest dating mistakes
• Being a driver, not a passenger, in your dating life
• The importance of body language
• First impressions aren’t everything, the long game is most important

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Connect with Shan

On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shanboody/

On her Blog: https://www.shanboodram.com/

On her Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/shannontboodram

 

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