Lyn Goffaux

August 13, 2020 — High School Dances, Roller Skates, and Finding My Own Way


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In this nostalgic episode, Lyn Goffaux looks back on her teenage years, sharing honest and often humorous memories of high school, shyness, and learning to stand on her own two feet. She begins with the last winter she spent in her childhood town before starting high school in Cody, describing how strange it felt to leave a tiny school and step into hallways crowded with new faces and social rules she didn’t yet understand.

Lyn recalls a church dance that felt both exciting and terrifying to a shy girl afraid of boys. She describes turning down a date because his mother would have to drive them, not admitting that what really scared her was the expectation that came with a “proper” date. Her stories reveal a young woman who wants to be kind and liked but is afraid her eagerness to please might override her ability to say no, a fear that quietly shapes many of her choices.

High school brings a mix of playful fun and emotional growing pains. Lyn remembers a school tradition where boys gather in the building and girls race around trying to “catch” a boy by looping a string with their name around his neck. One boy runs home and hides under his bed while his mother refuses to let the girls in, turning the chase into a scene straight out of a comedy. Later, a boy she nearly caught calls to ask if she still wants him, and Lyn simply steps outside, puts her name around his neck, and suddenly has a date for the dance.

At the dance, another boy asks her to dance while her date is getting punch, and Lyn is pulled between them, feeling more anxious than flattered. A casual remark about a brother who “had to get married” makes the risks of romance feel very real, and she realizes how frightened she is of situations where she might not be able to protect her boundaries. Her reflections offer a tender look at how fear, insecurity, and inexperience shape a young woman’s path long before she has words for concepts like consent and self-advocacy.

Lyn also paints a warm picture of life at the Green Gables, the big old house that becomes the backdrop for gatherings and small-town adventures. She remembers her friend Ellie renting a tiny place behind an undertaker’s home, complete with a walk-in freezer that sparks wild rumors, and hosting parties where line dances wind up and down all three floors. Though she is loosely included in a group of girls, Lyn often walks between classes alone, realizing over time that she prefers honesty to fitting in and that solitude can feel more truthful than forced conversation.

The episode closes with stories of her son Paul and his love of roller skating. As a teenager he walks across town every week just to skate, once getting a late-night ride home from a concerned police officer. Now he pours himself into work instead of hobbies, and Lyn wonders whether he still feels the same quiet joy he once found at the rink. Through these intertwined memories of dances, friendships, fears, and family, this episode becomes a gentle meditation on belonging and the long journey of learning how to be yourself.

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