Is it possible that we've been approaching forgiveness in the wrong way? Often times, we think about forgiveness in terms of whether or not the offender is repentant, but, does that actually matter? Using the brilliant story and characters from season 3, episode 16 of "Avatar: The Last Airbender," we discuss the misconceptions about forgiveness and talk about how we can all do a little better to be a little more at peace when others do us harm.