Love and honour are the two such vital essence of life whose origin comes from you.You give rise to these emotions inside of you and then like a wave it radiates and emanates everywhere around you, making you the soulful loving person.The only person who can make this illumination occur is you.The only person who initiates love to propagate in every direction is you.Hence, the one and only one person to be first honoured and loved is you, yourself.
In order to pour that love and respect onto others, you need to have your jar filled with the same.Until you don't love and honour yourself, you won't be able to completely execute this entire plan.Everything should come from a place of love and so everything should be evolved from love.
We keep running here and there our entire lives to fulfil our responsibilities, believing that we are born for this and keep faking that we are doing out of love, although deep down inside we are empty and suffering within.
Why suffer in silence? Why not understand that before we honour others, it is important to honour ourselves. Be loyal to yourself first, be honest about your feelings and emotions. Look after yourself first. Make yourself feel loved first and then you shall see the true power of love, when it radiates from you to others illuminating your life and the ones around you.