There is way which seems right but it could lead to destruction. Stop railing abuses, curses and dehumanizing your spouse, for it has future consequences. Of you sow peace, you are bound peace of mind, satisfaction and abundance too. The tongue has many destructive elements in it. Avoid using it dangerously. What you say determines the response you get. If your tongue is in charger, you will offend most times. Don't lose your job or destroy your marriage because of your tongue. Be carrier of a tongue of fire and not fake news.