It’s important if you run into, live with, or deal with others not to ever add gas to a fire they trying to start a fire. Don’t engage, react at all turn you face and turn back on someone don’t judge or assume someone else either unless you live behind closed doors. Just because you can’t relate, understand, or never experienced what the say or talk about or know their life and day to day all their life. There may never be an excuse but always a good reason or justification too….