Do we NEED to define our sexuality with one label? How does that help folks feel seen and affirmed, and what are the pitfalls? Why was the female main character doing so much emotional labor?

Trigger/content warnings:

Polyamory, fisting, toy play, oral, BDSM, anal, double penetration, primal play, rough sex, mentions of the foster care system, discussions of sexuality, mentions of parent death, and mentions of PTSD from one character's time in the military, humiliation, degradation, strong language.

Tropes:

MMF, grumpy sunshine, Christmas, gay/bi awakening, snowed in/forced proximity

Master Kim's corner:

Bisexual Stories from IRL women on how they figured out their sexuality - Paisley Gilmour and Lois Shearing