B-S Your Way Through Life

Ever find yourself carrying too much of other people’s problems or dramatic situations they got themselves into? Ever run to their aid, canceled your day because you felt emotionally connected to their problems, or felt responsible in some way? Then this episode is for you. This is your permission to let it go!

Do you ever feel like you’ve had a really hard day, and then your husband finally comes home and you’re so excited to finally have some relief and another adult in the house? But before you know it, you’re arguing and you’re not sure how it happened. All you were doing was complaining about your day, but then all of a sudden you’re at odds with each other. That’s the last thing you wanted, but here you are—confused and feeling a little more lonely than before.

Listen in to know that all this is normal, but also very easily fixable. You just haven’t been given the right tools yet or the understanding of what’s going on. This episode will help you gain a little more understanding and help you put all the pieces together so love can be the main feeling in your home again, and these moments can take a hike and happen a little less often.

Your life is built one choice at a time, each one carving out the person you’re becoming. Come with me as we uncover how you became you.

In this episode of BS Your Way Through Life, we explore what it really means to start fresh — not once a year, not only after big breakthroughs, but every single day.

Whether you’re navigating a toxic communication cycle, stuck in the habit of arguing over small things, or simply feeling disconnected in your marriage or relationships, a new beginning is always available. We talk about the courage it takes to pause, reset, and choose a different response… even when old patterns feel automatic.

This conversation dives into:

• How to create a fresh start inside the same relationship

• Why small arguments often mask deeper needs

• The role of forgiveness in making real change possible

• How to rebuild connection without pretending everything is perfect

A new beginning isn’t about erasing the past — it’s about choosing who you want to be today. And you can choose again tomorrow.

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In this episode, we dig into why the “right” advice doesn’t always land — even when it could fix everything. Sometimes we’re not ready. Sometimes we’re too deep in the mess to hear it. And sometimes the learning we need can only happen inside the chaos, not outside of it.

We also talk about the frustration of watching someone we love struggle, offering them the exact wisdom that could change their life… only to have it bounce right off. Then later, someone else says the same thing in a different way, and suddenly it clicks.

This conversation is a reminder that timing matters, readiness matters, and the mess itself is often the teacher.

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Imagine it's Christmas Eve, a time to create cherished memories with family. However, a woman finds herself at the laundromat, convinced that this chore is essential, while her children are at home, eagerly waiting to open gifts. This seemingly harmless decision is a classic example of self-sabotage, where we prioritize trivial tasks over meaningful moments, inadvertently hindering our happiness and personal growth.

Today I’m joined by Steve Seidel—TEDx speaker, executive coach, and founder of The Seidel Agency and Gents Journey. He’s known for helping people ditch autopilot and lean into the messy, meaningful parts of life. From ringing the NYSE bell dressed as Mr. Slurpee to coaching high-pressure families and businesses, Steve brings humor, heart, and hard-won tools for connection. Let’s dive in.

Connect with Steve:

Agency: TheSeidelAgency.com

Coaching: StephenSeidel.com/Media

Men’s Group: GentsJourney.co/join

TEDx Talk: https://rebrand.ly/seidelspeaking

And my social media handles are @StephenSeidel and @TheSeidelAgency + @GentsJourneyco

Today I’m joined by Steve Seidel—TEDx speaker, executive coach, and founder of The Seidel Agency and Gents Journey. He’s known for helping people ditch autopilot and lean into the messy, meaningful parts of life. From ringing the NYSE bell dressed as Mr. Slurpee to coaching high-pressure families and businesses, Steve brings humor, heart, and hard-won tools for connection. Let’s dive in.

Connect with Steve:

Agency: TheSeidelAgency.com

Coaching: StephenSeidel.com/Media

Men’s Group: GentsJourney.co/join

TEDx Talk: https://rebrand.ly/seidelspeaking

And my social media handles are @StephenSeidel and @TheSeidelAgency + @GentsJourneyco

✨ Podcast Description ✨

The holidays can bring joy, but they can also highlight the moments when you and your spouse aren't perfectly aligned. In My Holiday Alignment Special, we explore how to navigate those differences with grace. Instead of falling into criticism or frustration, this episode encourages respectful conversations that honor each other's ideas, desires, and traditions.

Whether it's deciding how to celebrate, what gifts to give, or simply how to spend your time, alignment doesn't always mean agreement—and that's okay. Tune in for practical insights on creating connection, fostering understanding, and keeping the season filled with kindness and respect.

Welcome to B-S Your Way Through Life — where we get real about connection, not just chemistry. Today I'm joined by Todd Sarner, a psychotherapist and parenting expert who helps high-achieving parents turn everyday tension into trust. Through his Transformative Parenting Process, Todd shows families how to shift from control to connection, even when things get messy. If you've ever felt like you 'know better' but still struggle in the moment, this one's for you.

Connect Wtih Todd:

Todd Sarner, MA MFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Director of Transformative Parenting

Education, Consulting and Coaching Services for Parents
www.transformativeparenting.com

Get Ready for Todd's book: The calm and connected parents

it's the book you needed yesterday!

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