In this episode of The Connection Code, Jeana and Rachel lean into a back-to-school mindset to explore the lessons we’ve learned about friendship over the years. From middle school buttons that reminded us of “the friends we’ve yet to meet” to the adult reality of friendship seasons, group dynamics, and the roles we play in our circles, this conversation gets candid about belonging, wayfinding, and why it often takes a leader to bring people together.

We also share stories of A+ friends who showed up in memorable ways, reflect on how friendships evolve in adulthood, and talk about the homework we’d give anyone looking to deepen their connections.

Stay tuned until the end for our “show and tell” — a card deck Jeana is creating for couples at Petite Acres and a gratitude practice Rachel discovered that might inspire your own rituals.

Books mentioned:

• Bowling Alone by Robert Putnam
• Friends by Robin Dunbar
• Belong by Radha Agrawal
• Unreasonable Hospitality by Will Guidara
• Braving the Wilderness by Brené Brown
• The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker

Other references:

• Meople – custom conversation cards Jeana collaborated with for Petite Acres couples
• New York Times article on belated thank-you notes

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