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BACK TO SCHOOL - Positive Energy, Car Symbols & School Wins | NeuroDADverse Ep 13


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🎧 Episode 13 – Positive Energy, Car Symbols & School Wins


In this heartfelt episode, Dan and Ben reflect on the surprising joys and ongoing challenges of getting their neurodivergent kids back into the school routine. From bath time meltdowns to unexpectedly peaceful transitions, the dads talk about managing expectations, building emotional safety, and honouring small wins.


Ben shares a special moment where Oscar opens up with emotional insight and compares Ben to a new teacher with “positive energy.” Dan shares Frankie's transition going back to school. Ben explores the balance of being a teacher-parent as Mabel starts self-managing GCSE revision. There's humour too — including a surprise car cymbal gift and a flashback to forgotten anniversary presents.


This episode is all about parenting by feel, celebrating progress, and surviving the whirlwind of early September.


💬 Topics This Episode

Back-to-school transitions for ND children

Reframing wins and challenges as a parent

Emotional safety in bedtime routines

Sibling support and independence at bath time

Neurodivergent sensory needs (and adaptations)

Parent guilt, pacing, and the mental load

Teacher vs. parent identity at home

GCSE revision systems for neurodiverse teens

The power of ‘when-then’ language

Neurodivergent couple dynamics & diagnosis reflections


⏱️ YouTube Chapter Timestamps

00:00 – Welcome to Episode 13

01:00 – Week in 3 Words: Surprising, Whirlwind, Tidier

03:00 – Back-to-school debrief & family dinner outing

06:00 – Supporting teens with study habits and autonomy

09:00 – The fine line between parent and teacher at home

12:00 – Neurodivergent brains & adapting routines

15:00 – Emotional wins that don’t fit neat categories

18:00 – Unexpected transitions & scaffolding support

21:00 – Sleep struggles and early wake-ups

24:00 – Revising routines: managing rest and mornings

27:00 – School transport triggers and regulation strategies

30:00 – Laura’s ADHD diagnosis and new household adjustments

33:00 – Supporting adult ND routines with child-style care

36:00 – Inclusive approaches to emotional regulation

39:00 – Creative coping strategies: glasses, fans, flowers

42:00 – Filmmaking updates and surprise festival news

45:00 – Solo parenting & evening rhythms

48:00 – Bath time reflections & routine wins

51:00 – Celebrating progress and parental growth

54:00 – Laura’s love for Lego & self-soothing tools

57:00 – Final thoughts, podcast impact & listener feedback

01:00 – Outro: Looking ahead to next week


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