Recorded: 4/19/2020 / Published: 6/4/2020

Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The KryptMayfair85 is joining me to go back to the basics of BDSM 101 and then I’ll be answering your questions live.

[01:44] Rules to Love By
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

[02:14] A brief History of BDSM

[04:55] BDSM and society

[05:29] https://NCSFreedom.org

[06:33] What about submission touches your soul?

[07:02] Sexual Vs Service submission

[09:16] Branding yourself as a sub or a slave without knowing what a bottom is.

[10:59] Labeling ourselves

[12:05] Tops, bottoms, and switches

[18:56] Where Consent and Communication Meet

[19:34] Communication: one of the lines between abuse and non-abuse.

[21:56] Mayfair's advice to newbies.

[23:20] Safe Call Defined

[38:03] When do you stop feeling new?

[46:49] Getting back together with an ex?

[48:24] Can people change?

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