In this message from the "Reassembly Required" series, we explore why our usual relationship repair tactics—convincing, convicting, coercing, and controlling—never work. Just like using the wrong tool from a broken toolbox, these approaches only make things worse. Drawing from Romans 12, discover the first crucial decision for healing broken relationships: choosing to "get back to" people instead of "getting back at" them. Learn why forgiveness alone isn't enough, and how God's example of reconciliation calls us to move beyond our comfort zones—even when we're not the ones at fault. This practical teaching challenges followers of Jesus to see others through God's eyes and take the first step toward genuine restoration