"Love is a Two Way Street constantly on construction." This is the only quote you need to remember while discussing Love. And I don't know how to be not cheated on. All I can say I have seen patterns from the Generation of my Grandma and Grandpa, then my Maa and Paa and then me experiencing it myself. A partnership of Life partner might be arranged but it's never too late to be in love. So I hope my experiences would make your experience of Love better when you're struggling. Enjoy.