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Bare truth #58: Jobie Summer - Author of The Pleasure is Ours: Increase Your Intimacy and Ecstasy with Phone Sex


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I so enjoyed recording my podcast with Jobie, she was a delight to speak with and after accommodating a long delay because I had computer trouble, she was open and engaging and her warmth and genuine desire to make a different was evident in everything she said
 Jobie has found in her work with people that the two most difficult issues in a relationship are sex and money!
 Jobie is an expert in loving, intimate communication. After working with couples as a financial advisor for 15 years, she found the common thread to money problems was a lack of true intimacy in their method of communicating.  Jobie says, “Many people talk to one another but don’t truly listen and feel each other.  This same challenge transfers to all aspects of relationships and often starts with the most tangible aspect of intimacy – sexuality.” 
 If people can’t speak lovingly about sex and money there will be a strain on your relationship. After seeing this strain over and over again with her clients, she decided it was time to do something about it.
 Jobie has combined her diverse background in Education, Mediation, Compassionate Listening and Tantra to help people really connect on an intimate level.   She has taken the communication skills she has learned both through her own experiences and 1000s of hours of training to teach people how to talk lovingly to each other.
 She loves training in the context of Phone Sex because it is the perfect playground for learning.  When lovers speak on the phone, they can’t look into each other’s eyes or wrap their arms around each other for support so they are forced to develop loving language.  People have a choice between feeling the distance growing between them or they can learn to communicate with their words.
It is all about having the proper skill set. Jobie introduces these skills in her latest book, “The Pleasure is Ours: Increase Your Intimacy and Ecstasy with Phone Sex”.
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The Bare TruthBy Julia Armstrong, Andy White