"You're so lucky" says my friends who compliment my positive interactions with my partners. I feel lucky, but I also know that I put in "effort" to make sure the good communication is there so I can enjoy our "fate" or "destiny". Why does society press the good outcomes to come from luck or something spontaneous that we can't control. It just is? Why do we forget the effort we're putting into life? This episode comes with communication and self-aware was strategies. Tune in for "basic training: Effort vs. Fate"