Kink-oriented listener questions on topics including collars in BDSM play and relationships, where to find BDSM checklists and how to get the most out of them, how a submissive can be assertive about getting kinky play without acting dominant, the purported correlation between childhood sexual abuse and sexual submission, and rape fantasies.
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045 BDSM Advice: Collars, BDSM Checklists, Assertive Submission, Rape Fantasies

Despite what most of us are led to believe, there is nothing mysterious or elusive about the female orgasm.  This is one of the many things you were probably never taught about sex, since you grew up in a society too afraid of it to have truly open dialogue on the subject.

Ending the Sexual Dark Age will guide you, a step at a time, to the healthy attitude towards sexuality that you would have been taught in a genuinely civilized world.   From practical techniques to sexual philosophy, you’ll learn you how to have better sex and more of it; in a friendly atmosphere that doesn’t demean or coddle.   As a matter of fair warning, I use blunt language with a "no BS" style, and occasionally I say things that would make a sailor blush.  Feel free to address any questions, concerns, comments or tirades to jvaltharas at gmail dot com.

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Our first episode since before the world turned upside down, thanks for still being here!  We're coming back on the scene by hosting a kink contingent July 23-28 at Swingtopia 2022, at our favorite place to get freaky in paradise, with our good friends at Char Travel!  We're confirmed for one of our signature Dungeon Nights in the disco, we'll be doing a demo as usual, and the mini dungeon will be available for casual play at all hours.  To learn more about the trip, visit http://www.chartravel.com/groups and click on Swingtopia Desire 2022!

101 Bringing Kink Back To Paradise

To celebrate our 100th episode, our sexy friends from Life on the Swingset come by to talk shop and swap stories. Show Links: Come play with us at Swingset Desire 2019 Life on the Swingset   Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook- Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  

100 Friends Swing By For The Centennial Episode

This show is our annual Dungeon Night Debrief episode, recorded with a live audience at Desire Resort in Riviera Maya (Cancun) This is also the last of the old recordings, so we're caught up! Tune in next time for our centennial episode, when we'll be joined by our best friends in podcasting from Life on the Swingset.   Show Links: Come play with us at SS Desire 2019 Life on the Swingset   Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook- Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  

099 Dungeon Night Debrief 2018

In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara,and the Swingset Crew recapping SS Desire 2018. Part 2 of 2   Show Links: Come play with us at SS Desire 2019 Life on the Swingset   Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook- Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  

098 Total Desire Recall 2018 (Part 2)

In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara, Tristan Taormino and the Swingset Crew recapping SS Desire 2018. Part 1 of 2   Show Links: Come play with us at SS Desire 2019 Life on the Swingset Pucker Up - Tristan's Sex-Positive home on the web. Sex Out Loud Podcast with Tristan Taormino Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  

045 BDSM Advice: Collars, BDSM Checklists, Assertive Submission, Rape Fantasies

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