BDSM gets framed a lot as “something that must come from trauma.” In this episode, I push back on that oversimplification and offer a different lens: dominance can be self-discovery—a deliberate, consent-driven way of exploring identity, power, desire, and responsibility.

We’ll talk about:

* The difference between having a kink and acting it out ethically

* Why the “it’s all trauma” narrative can be harmful and dismissive

* How dominance can reflect values (care, structure, leadership, attunement)

* The role of communication, negotiation, boundaries, and aftercare

* A simple way to check: Is this empowering and consensual—or compulsive and avoidant?

This isn’t therapy or diagnosis—just a practical, respectful conversation about kink as choice, skill, and personal truth.

Listener note: mentions of BDSM dynamics and consent (no explicit sexual detail).

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