Kuldrin's Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast
BDSM Frenzy-S01E31
October 11, 2017
This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 31
Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about frenzy but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.
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Rules to Love by:
Safe, sane, consensual, informed
KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
The definition of frenzy is a condition of being overly excited, wanting to try something new, or several things in very quick fashion; being in a frenzied state in regards to the lifestyle.
Three types of frenzy, or groups of people it affects.
Sub-frenzy
The frenzy submissives feel, also thought of as the most common kind, this is definitely the most talked about form of frenzy.
Dom-frenzy
Rarely acknowledged, this is the frenzy dominants feel and often makes them push themselves into new toys or techniques faster than they should.
Switch frenzy
Switches feel frenzy from both perspectives and this often can lead to a temporary mindset of “use this on me, okay good, now my turn.” It comes basically from both sides of the fence, but feeling it come from one end of things and not the other can lead to periods of self doubt and questioning of your position in the lifestyle.
Signs that you or someone you know may be experiencing frenzy:
Adrenaline rush
Feeling almost inebriated when approaching the lifestyle, or learning about something that is new to you. Dizziness, surreality, etc.
Feeling like you need to make up for lost time. Lots of those who are new to the lifestyle will feel like this, as though they have “wasted” time up until this point and are finally becoming who they were meant to be.
Feeling a surge of excitement and hope when encountering something new.
Feeling unspecified needs, or an insatiable need for more.
Feeling the need to mirror what someone else wants or needs. Again this something everyone can do, not just subs as many myths would have you believe.
Other emotions you may encounter during periods of frenzy, particularly if you are a newbie are fear, guilt, self-disgust, anger, denial, anxiety, and confusion.
The risks of frenzy:
You mind find yourself saying, “wait did I really consent to that?”
Going into a situation or play with a lack of information.
Higher health risks, due to a lack of information, giving consent without understanding what you consented to, or pushing to otherwise questionable limits.
Dangerous emotional and physical burn out, often from playing too much or too soon.
Skipping the proper vetting process, or ending up with a right now parnter instead of the right partner, simply because you want or feel like you need someone....