Join Michael as he looks back over the past few years and share some of his learning of being a dom.

01:20 Kink is Wonderful

03:49 Sexuality Is Very Fluid: It's Ok To Not Know Or Understand Your Sexuality/Kinks Just Yet

06:58 Communication is Key

09:29 When Simple Needs Are Not Met, Things Can Get Very Complicated

13:38 Power Centred Kink is Informed By Trauma (a work in progress)

17:26 Sensory Centred Kink is Neurologically Based

18:49 I Do Believe in the Narrative Idea of Dom/sub

21:32 I Am Pretty Clear Where My Kink Originates From

24:02 My Kinks Aren't As Urgent Anymore

Join Michael as he looks back over the past few years and share some of his learning.

In one of his favourite and probably most important episodes, Michael uses the video essay "How Fight Club Turns Men into Space Monkeys" by the YouTube channel "Like Stories of Old", to discuss how it parallels the dynamics of dominance and submission, particularly the appeal of the "unconflicted" alpha figure. Michael reflects on human instincts around hierarchy, the yearning for role models, and how individuals surrender their individuality in the pursuit of symbolic immortality. He emphasises the importance of critically examining the motivations behind following dominant figures and how these connections offer a sense of meaning and escape from existential fears.

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Like Stories Of Old: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ymgoem4v4u4&t=66s

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In this episode, Michael updates listeners on his recent experiences with dating and navigating the complexities of financial domination (fandom). He shares reflections on a fragile connection he formed with someone he met, noting the emotional highs and lows of the dynamic. The episode delves into the struggles of finding authentic connections in the kink and dating scenes, as well as the psychological aspects behind his desires. Michael also touches on the impact of therapy and his inner child work, highlighting the intricate layers of guilt, power, and control that shape his experiences.

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In this episode, Michael talks about his recent break up and where that has led him.

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In this episode, Michael discuss how meeting someone has potentially changed his sexual identity. However, it can't be that easy... can it?

He also gives a brief update on his inner child work and how this may have played a part.

I talk with Phil, the creator of the Master Slave Lifestyle website and podcast (masterslavelifestyle.com), about my journey into and out of Findom.

This episode premiered on his podcast Jan 2024, recorded late 2023.