You want a better relationship with your teen? Well here’s a tip you might not expect. Embrace conflict!

Now hear me out on this one. When you acknowledge tension and work through it, this communicates to your teen that you’re willing to take risks for their benefit. And it shows that you’ll always love them, no matter what.

Now, that doesn’t mean you should stir up trouble where there is none. But here’s the point … ignoring unresolved conflict can cause tremendous damage to any relationship. Don’t become passive, or evasive, when your teen’s emotions flare up.

Remember that God is directing your family. He can use this unwanted moment of conflict to strengthen your relationship with your teen. In fact, this could be the unexpected answer to your prayers.

Mom, dad … embrace conflict!

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