Listen to me and pay attention to what I say. Do not let your heart turn to her ways or into her path (taken from Proverbs 7:24-25.) Her path is death and destruction. She uses flattery to get you. This not just for men it is for all believers. Beware of the devil using smooth words that sound so good but will eventually will entrap you (meaning to trick or deceive you). The key is staying in the word for relationship with God and he will show you truth.