The quest for reward is inherently human. Everyone wants be acknowledged and heard one way of another. Nevertheless, the thirst has become wild. People will forfeit their values and standards just to fit in and be accepted by a socio economic class even at the detriment of their healing and growth. It's time to embrace that accountability when it still feels harder. You can tell your spouse. Guess what, the moment you tell, your victory starts. No jokes you guys, I am