Life can certainly throw curve balls at us but how we choose to deal with adversity sometimes changes the outcome.   When we think that life can be unforgiving or unfair, we start complaining for a variety of reasons. We don't have enough money, we do not drive the latest car, we do not own expensive clothes or even live in a huge elegant home.  We start thinking that life is out to get us but what we do not realize is that someone else in a different place is experiencing a worse situation than us.