One of my mentors, Late Jim Rohn, wrote in one of his books:

“I'm often asked the question, "How can I best help my children, spouse, family member, staff member, friend, etc. improve/change?" In fact, this might be the most frequently asked question I receive, "How can I help change someone else?"

My answer often comes as a surprise and here it is, the key to helping others is to help yourself first. In other words, the best contribution I can make to someone else is my personal development.

The Best Gift you can give to others is the gift of MORE YOU. ....