I'm here in a minuscule village in India and one incident occurred with me. So how all this start -- see I was sitting in a bustling group of relatives so in the group everyone was trying to one-up one another and I'd also on the list so I was trying to be a more hilarious guy in the whole group just for getting more attention of all the relatives but at the end, it turned into a complete humiliation of my self-respect after that incident I went right away to quest the reason of behaviour of getting more attention in public so I've realised that I'm spending too much time amid of these guys because I was thinking that this behaviour will make me more superior more noticeable in the whole group so no one can get respect, happiness from this sort of behaviour okay so please pass only the relevant time in the group of your family or whatever the group you have and don't forget to give some time for self-care If you will give too much time too much attention to anyone your relationship with them will suffer so what's the self-care in reality , Self care is a situation where you live with yourself , you do what you likeyou cut yourself from the rest of the world and especially from your knowers I'm not saying that you should not joke in public or family group because if you would not do it then you can be the most staling guy in the whole group so a good sense of humour is amazing skill through which you can bring a big smile on the face of anyone but how much extent it should perform, we all should care of that okay because every one of us is not wanna become a comedian man so be careful I hope you like it thank you for spending some time with us