Today I learned I have to be really really fast. I was thinking about a pattern that I’ve been recently experiencing. A girl who doesn’t look half bad will signal her interest in me. I’ll take a few moments and consider whether or not I want to pursue this girl. And usually within the time span of me deciding whether or not I want to shoot my shot the opportunity slips away. This has happened so many times. This indecision comes from fear. Fear of rejection and fear of success. After a couple of moments I decided that I will shoot my shot but by then so much time has passed and I’ve already clamed up. This is just the easier thing to do. It’s tough to be decisive. It’s tough to quickly power through that wall of resistance in your mind. I’ve found that the more time I spend debating whether or not I’m gonna say something to the girl that has signaled interests in me the more likely I’m not gonna say anything at all. The anxiety builds up and I get more in my head. The more I sit still and contemplate whether I will run the risk of rejection the more I start thinking about rejection and embarrassment. The funny thing is I’m the polar opposite with my entrepreneurial and creative pursuits. When I get an idea for a creative project I usually try out the idea immediately. I don’t really care or not whether the idea will work I’m just so excited to give the idea a shot. To work on the idea. To grow it and develop it into something more than what it intially was. The process of just doing that is very fun to me. I have to be the same way with women. Upon realizing that a girl has signaled interest in me I have to immediately get up and build with her. That same excitement, decisiveness, and vigor that I have for business is appliable to women.