Fatherhood, Freakouts, and Figuring It Out

In this episode, Brian and Cole kick things off with their usual chaotic guy humor before dropping into one of their most honest conversations yet: what it actually feels like to be a new dad.

They break down the emotional whiplash of fatherhood—the moments of pure joy, the moments where you want to scream into a pillow, and the intrusive "shake the baby" instinct that no one talks about but every parent understands. They discuss balancing entrepreneurship with being present at home, why "presence vs. presents" is a false choice, and how defining what it means to be a "good man" eliminates guilt.

The guys also talk about childhood patterns resurfacing when raising your own kids, how babies absorb your emotional energy, and practical ways to stay present (including the "phone on the charger" rule). It's raw, relatable, and surprisingly grounding for any parent—especially entrepreneurs trying to build a legacy while raising little humans.