In this conversation,  we realize that not  all words are  spoken in the same context.  Whatever you put meaning to,  will have power and the  intent  gives clarity of the word spoken.  We also learn that not everything is what is seems.  For example..   Each letter of the The word U.G.L.Y  stands for much more than a  negative  insult, thought or behavior.  We can always turn something ugly into something beautiful.  It's all in the way we perceive it and give meaning  to it.