Be Vigilant and aware of any and especially any new relationship with a person. I myself have delt with this and it's a dangerous situation and can be a catastrophe in the future for some one that may be a good person. You may dismiss the chance because of what others have done to you in the past. Don't trust them just because they say it. Watch how they move, not what they say.
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